Meet Josephine, also known as Josie to those close to her. She is an angelic looking, darling 3 year old girl who was diagnosed with autism at two years old.Read More
You have already met both Berkley and Beau individually. They are brothers who both have an Autism Spectrum Disorder. Depending on the study you read, when you have a child with an Autism Spectrum Disorder, chances of a younger sibling having one as well is somewhere between 7% to 18%.
Berkley was diagnosed with Autism before Beau was born. Because of this, their parents recognized the signs for Beau earlier. The signs of Autism were similar, yet, at the same time, very different. Their personalities are different, as well as their strengths and challenges. Berkley struggles with language and fine motor skills, as well as following sequences, whether in the form of pictures or writing. Beau's language is still developing, but he struggles with gross motor skills, such as balance and coordination, but he is very visual and learned how to build all his magnet and lego creations by watching others and looking at pictures.
Berkley and Beau have a sister between them, a beautiful, friendly little girl named Harper. She helps her brothers by modeling communication and behaviors for them. She also motivates imaginative play with them. She gets drug along to their appointments and outings, and, even though she is a generally happy girl, it gets wearing for her as well.
Having a child with special needs can be stressful for a family. Having two can be even more so. Both Berkley and Beau have busy, intense schedules that tend to overtake family life sometimes. Their family has to balance the normal, everyday stresses of having three young children, as well as the additional stresses of having children with Autism. Including behaviors, sensory issues, IEPs, various therapies and other ASD needs.
Being a parent to a child with special needs can be very isolating and lonely, and it is easy to get into a routine that is all about your child, or children, and their needs. So, if you know someone who has a child that has special needs, please remember to make an extra effort to reach out, whether it's a message, phone call, or a coffee date. It will be appreciated more than you can imagine. If you are a parent to a child with special needs, remember to take a little time to yourself sometimes. No matter how hard it is, it is worth it and you deserve it.
Beau is a 3 year old boy who was diagnosed with an Autism Spectrum Disorder at 2.5 years old. He is a sweet little boy with tons of energy! He loves lining up his toys, labeling pictures and counting. He loves to sing preschool songs and is even doing some of the motions for the songs! He loves playing in water, just not while it is running!
As a baby, Beau did not coo or babble, but instead made deep growling sounds when he was happy or playful. He did not know how to play with typical baby toys. When sat down, he stayed in the spot he was put and did not try to explore. Beau could not eat baby food off of a spoon. He did not wave or appropriately interact with others.
Beau started Early Intervention at 1.5 years old and transitioned to BECEP at 3 years old. He is now on the DD (Developmental Disabilties) Waiver.
Beau has made amazing progress. At Christmas 2015, he had only 2-3 words that he mimicked and didn't use functionally. Today, Beau says well over 100 words and uses them functionally! He can identify letters and numbers, label pictures of foods, shapes, and spells out words. He now can ask his mom for milk and crackers and he points to things of interest. He has started saying animal sounds as well and even giggles with excitement! He is become more aware of those around him and his world is expanding every day.
The Faces of Autism: Meet MiKynna!
To officially kick off "The Faces of Autism", I started with my youngest child, MiKynna. She is 2.5 years old, and was diagnosed with Autism at 15 months old.Read More